Some of them are often not so valued by men because they consider them something that the female audience does not notice. But if you’re a man and you think like that, it’s time to review your concepts.
According to therapist Claudya Toledo, founder of A2 Encontros, there is a type of man for every woman: the shy, families, intellectuals, connected to social causes and even the most naughty.
Claudya points out that, of course, the first impression counts a lot, since the woman does not know in detail the characteristics of the suitor. “The first thing they look at is the shoes. They also notice the hair, the nails, the belly. Besides, I think it also matters a lot if she goes out with the man who has the right clothes and the car washed, for example. “, he explains.
Know what can be attractive in a man:
Stylish man
Many women are enchanted by the way a man dresses and it doesn’t matter styles. “Having an attitude when dressing is important. The man does not need to follow the rules of fashion, but he must be well presented”, highlights Claudya.
popular man
According to the therapist, it is sexy for a man to arrive at the place and be known, to know the dish he is going to order, to recommend a dish he likes to his wife. “This gives the woman an inspiration. She starts to think about what he is like during a more intimate relationship”, she details.
determined men
Some women like a proactive attitude from the suitor. “They think it’s sexy when he makes the decision of the moment, when he carries the groceries, chooses a place for the first dinner and pays the bill”, explains Claudya. Men who have a good chat
“While they love to talk, women are also very listened to. “The openness of sexuality is in the ears. When she has a man who tells stories, she starts to create new perspectives and becomes more curious about what he has to say”, explains Claudya. A good chat can activate a woman’s sexuality and leave her connected to the man. “No there’s nothing more sexual than that,” he says.
intellectual men
Many women value highly educated and educated men. “This is important, but a complement is needed. There are men with a very high intellectual level, but who are not communicative and end up not being able to express all this intellectuality”, explains the therapist, who takes the opportunity to highlight that most women are attracted to men strong, powerful and intelligent.
fun men
“Men with a good sense of humor are super attractive to women”, warns Claudya. Laughter is a great channel to connect the couple. The fact that a couple starts a funny subject and continues to laugh makes it turn into sexual attraction.
Men linked to social and ecological causes
There are women who value this very much, but, according to Claudya, this is not a fundamental factor. The therapist explains that the cause is still a rarity because the man must prepare himself a lot for it. “You have to work a lot first so that he has financial stability. When a person goes beyond an age group, from about 45 years old, it becomes easier to dedicate himself to it. In the productive age, this is not sexy”, she details. .
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successful men
A woman finds it sexy when a man is able to pay the bill or when he surprises her with a gift on a special date. “She doesn’t want him to support her, but she wants a guy who can win, who can help her with the bills and who can afford to travel with her,” she explains.
Many famous men publicize their work and concerns with these causes, but, according to Claudya, they do so to show a different image to the public. “The famous already have enough money and they appeal to other things. Nobody knows when a normal guy is there at the NGO, helping.”
family men
“I think most women want a man who comes from a good family, who values it and who seeks a stable relationship. This is on the rise and always will be”, she highlights. Claudya exemplifies that the woman wants a “dog man” for life, who is connected to his origins, is faithful and companion. The “cat man” will wait for the woman to sleep before leaving the house. “But there are women who like this type. He meows and curls”, details the therapist. “But it’s important to note that the man doesn’t change the essence. The woman who found a cat shouldn’t try to turn him into a dog.”
men who know how to dance
This gift can be attractive to women. “If a couple has dancing together as a hobby, they hit each other on the floor and hit each other in bed always. This is a technique I use for couples therapy. When you hit the step it can be very cool”, explains Claudya.
shy men
Women find it sexy when a man is more shy and quiet because of the mystery. They want to try to find out what they hide and what they have to say. “Women love to hear a man speak. In these cases, she tries to get a word out of him. It takes a lot of work, and ends up involving the woman a lot.”
men with s faceaffable
“If he has this style, this more naughty air, he is certainly more roguish than other types of men. There are many women who like this style, who like a pepper”, he explains. According to Claudya, women are attracted, after a certain intimacy, to a stronger joke or a move that may even be a little embarrassing for her.
